Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Hello!

Hellooooo out there!! Anybody still read this thing?? Tap tap tap - is it on?

I've been away from the blog for awhile . . . school holidays and all. We kept right on trucking with school over the break, but since all after-school activities were on hiatus I found myself without much time to blog. It wasn't all work and no play for the girls, or me, because we did throw a few play dates into the mix, after we finished our schoolwork, and we were invited to tea a few times, and had friends here some, so, you know, we filled our days. 

Anyhoo, my big girls are now at Musical Stars and Ellie is happily ensconced watching Dumbo (the irony of the title as she sits in front of the tv for almost two hours is not lost on me), so I am in catch-up mode. Hi, my name is Dawn and this is my blog about our life in New Zealand. Only, I'm running out of things to say that are just about our lives, so sometimes I wax lyrical about other stuff. This is one of those times, only I'm not going to write too much, just link to a video I found enlightening being a visual thinker and all . .  . my aim here is NOT to get political. I am surrounded by people here who probably wouldn't agree with me politically and I know that nothing I say will do much to change their position, and vice - versa. Besides this little clip is about America anyway. No, I'm staying away from politics. This is just educational. And short, very short. Your welcome!




The girls are all doing well, we are excitedly planning for our trip back to America in a few months. I haven't taken any new pics recently although I keep seeing something in town that I want to photograph and post here because it cracks me up every time I drive by - stay tuned.

One last little thing and then I'm out of here - I had to take the girls to the dentist today (all of us had our teeth cleaned), then to two different appointments for me, and so they were left alone three different times in three different waiting rooms to look after themselves, and I'm just so proud because ALL THREE TIMES someone told me what good kids they were! It was a banner morning - and I'd been dreading it for days. Go figure, thank you God and thank you girls! We went and got ice cream to celebrate, stuff like that doesn't happen every day. 

Sunday, April 19, 2009

A quiet Saturday

I SO miss Sarah Giles!! I am hopeless at getting a picture of all four girls looking at the camera and smiling at the same time. . . we can't wait to get to Texas and hug her neck AND get some cute updated photos. 
Saturday was beautiful here and for once we had NOTHING on our schedule! We made the most of our time together at home and played games, did some crafts, and I even attempted home-made cinnamon rolls for only the second time in my life. They were much tastier than the first time I tried, but I still haven't found a recipe I love, I need to get Kelly to send me the recipe for Big Mom's cinnamon rolls as I do believe they are the best ever. 

Before even getting out  of pajamas Meggie and Daddy were playing a game of tennis on the Wii.

Ellie was painting a Winnie the Pooh "stained glass" suncatcher. . .
Josie and I were attempting the cinnamon rolls. . .


The rolls required several long intervals of time to rise, so in between helping me Josie would go outside and paint a wind chime.

Meanwhile inside Meggie dragged herself away from the Wii to make some Hama bead horses (Katie took her place and perfected her Wii Cheer skills, she is GOOD but I was up to my elbows in cinnamon and butter so I didn't get her picture).
Finally, a cup of tea, a cinnamon roll and some computer time.
Cool cat Katie having her tea and roll:
I'll leave you with this picture of Ellie and Willow enjoying the sun. Willow was looking for the remnants of the rolls that I'd thrown on the lawn for the birds.
I lied, one more pic, Meggie was invited to a birthday party where she was supposed to bring her favorite book and dress up like a character from the story. It was easy peasy for her, her favorite series of books is called "Winnie the Horse Gentler" so she dressed in her jodhpurs and boots and went as Winnie. How cute is she???
Have a great weekend y'all!

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Ellie turns 4!!

So Miss Eleanor had a birthday last week and I'm a bit behind in posting the pictures. . . but better late than never! I need to move on from my Susan Boyle obsession (we've quit watching her video over and over, but we've put our Les Miserables cd in the car and the girls are learning all the words) and get back to posting about our life and children.

Ellie was too excited for words about turning four - she's been counting days all month. The little darling didn't have a party, but we did let her choose the events of the day. First up - presents and Froot Loops just like Josie's birthday:


Ellie said she wanted to go over to Rob and Liz's and have a swim in the spa so we did. I tried to keep them from putting their heads under but it was useless.

That evening we went over to the Colemans for dinner and cupcakes, the kids all got to decorate their own.
She has the funniest blowing out the candles face evah. . .
Next year I absolutely HAVE to have a party for this child and for Josie, but for now they both were incredibly pleased with their special days, thank you to all who remembered and celebrated them. xoxoxo

Friday, April 17, 2009

More Susan Boyle. . .

I think I'm kind of obsessed, we've been watching the Susan Boyle video over and over. I can't stand the way the audience and judges totally dismissed her, right from the beginning, and then TOLD her. . . I enjoyed this article about it from the UK Herald, but when you're done reading that if you want to see clips of her on "The Early Show" then click here, but be warned, they are very condescending to her as well. GRRRRRR.

The beauty that matters is always on the inside
COLETTE DOUGLAS HOME
April 14 2009
Susan Boyle's story is a parable of our age. She is a singer of enormous talent, who cared for her widowed mother until she died two years ago. Susan's is a combination of ability and virtue that deserves congratulation. So how come she was treated as a laughing stock when she walked on stage for the opening heat of Britain's Got Talent 2009 on Saturday night?

The moment the reality show's audience and judging panel saw the small, shy, middle-aged woman, they started to smirk. When she said she wanted a professional singing career to equal that of Elaine Paige, the camera showed audience members rolling their eyes in disbelief. They scoffed when she told Simon Cowell, one of the judges, how she'd reached her forties without managing to develop a singing career because she hadn't had the opportunity. Another judge, Piers Morgan, later wrote on his blog that, just before she launched into I Dreamed a Dream, the 3000-strong audience in Glasgow was laughing and the three judges were suppressing chuckles.
It was rude and cruel and arrogant. Susan Boyle from Blackburn, West Lothian, was presumed to be a buffoon. But why?

Britain's Got Talent isn't a beauty pageant. It isn't a youth opportunity scheme. It is surely about discovering untapped and unrecognised raw talent from all sections of society.
And Susan Boyle has talent to burn. Such is the beauty of her voice that she had barely sung the opening bars when the applause started. She rounded off to a standing ovation and - in her naivety - began walking off the stage and had to be recalled.

Susan, now a bankable discovery, was then roundly patronised by such mega-talents as Amanda Holden and the aforementioned Morgan, who told her: "Everyone laughed at you but no-one is laughing now. I'm reeling with shock." Holden added: "It's the biggest wake-up call ever."
Again, why?

The answer is that only the pretty are expected to achieve. Not only do you have to be physically appealing to deserve fame; it seems you now have to be good-looking to merit everyday common respect. If, like Susan (and like millions more), you are plump, middle-aged and too poor or too unworldly to follow fashion or have a good hairdresser, you are a non-person.
I dread to think of how Susan would have left the stage if her voice had been less than exceptional. She would have been humiliated in front of 11 million viewers. It's the equivalent of being put in the stocks in front of the nation instead of the village. It used to be a punishment handed out to criminals. Now it is the fate of anyone without obvious sexual allure who dares seek opportunity.

This small, brave soul took her courage in her hands to pitch at her one hope of having her singing talent recognised, and was greeted with a communal sneer. Courage could so easily have failed her. Yet why shouldn't she sound wonderful? Not every great singer looks like Katherine Jenkins. Edith Piaf would never have been chosen to strut a catwalk. Nor would Nina Simone, nor Ella Fitzgerald. As for Pavarotti But then ridicule is nothing new in Susan Boyle's life. She is a veteran of abuse. She was starved of oxygen at birth and has learning difficulties as a result. At school she was slow and had frizzy hair. She was bullied, mostly verbally. She told one newspaper that her classmates' jibes left behind the kind of scars that don't heal.
She didn't have boyfriends, is a stranger to romance and has never been kissed. "Shame," she said. Singing was her life-raft.

She lived with her parents in a four-bedroom council house and, when her father died a decade ago, she cared for her mother and sang in the church choir. It was an unglamorous existence. She wasn't the glamorous type - and being a carer isn't a glamorous life, as the hundreds of thousands who do that most valuable of jobs will testify. Even those who start out with a beauty routine and an interest in clothes find themselves reverting to the practicality of a tracksuit and trainers. Fitness plans get interrupted and then abandoned. Weight creeps on. Carers don't often get invited to sparkling dinner parties or glitzy receptions, so smart clothes rarely make it off the hanger.

Then, when a special occasion comes along, they might reach, as Susan did, for the frock they bought for a nephew's wedding. They might, as she did, compound the felony of choosing a colour at odds with her skin tone and an unflattering shape with home-chopped hair, bushy eyebrows and a face without a hint of make-up. But it is often evidence of a life lived selflessly; of a person so focused on the needs of another that they have lost sight of themselves. Is that a cause for derision or a reason for congratulation? Would her time have been better spent slimming and exercising, plucking and waxing, bleaching and botoxing? Would that have made her voice any sweeter?

Susan Boyle's mother encouraged her to sing. She wanted her to enter Britain's Got Talent. But the shy Susan hasn't been able to sing at all since her mother's death two years ago. She wasn't sure how her voice would emerge after so long a silence. Happily, it survived its rest.
She is a gift to Simon Cowell and reality television. Her story is the stuff of Hans Christian Andersen: the woman plucked from obscurity, the buried talent uncovered, the transformation waiting to be wrought. It is wonderful for her, too, that her stunning voice is now recognised. A bright future beckons. Her dream is becoming reality.

Susan is a reminder that it's time we all looked a little deeper. She has lived an obscure but important life. She has been a companionable and caring daughter. It's people like her who are the unseen glue in society; the ones who day in and day out put themselves last. They make this country civilised and they deserve acknowledgement and respect. Susan has been forgiven her looks and been given respect because of her talent. She should always have received it because of the calibre of her character.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Amazing

If you haven't seen this already you should watch - it's a clip of Susan Boyle singing on "Britains Got Talent" and it is inspiring!! Sorry but it won't let me stick it right on the blog, so click here if you'd like to watch!

Monday, April 13, 2009

Happy Easter!! Christ is Risen!!

We woke up to a glorious Easter morning - the weather was perfect!! Last year I couldn't really get my head around the fact that Easter represented the beginning of autumn rather than spring, so we went to church in our spring clothing and froze. This year I was much wiser and we dressed accordingly, and the weather couldn't have been more lovely. It was warm, sunny and calm - not a ton of that famous Wellington wind.


We began our day by meeting Hugh, Margaret and Kate at the cathedral for a Schubert mass. Dugald's Uncle John is Chancellor for the Anglican Diocese of Wellington so he and his wife Dianna were there and had saved us seats in the very front - we sat behind the Bishop's wife and the Dean's wife (who was celebrating her 29th wedding anniversary). Our sweet friends Adrienne, Maddie and Lucy were there too so we felt right at home.


The service was beautiful, there is something about high church and beautiful music that brings a feeling of reverence we often miss as we attend our contemporary family-friendly service. It's nice to visit, but it isn't home for us. The music was extraordinary and the children did very well. Because we were so close to the front the girls could see three of the eggs that were hidden for the Easter Egg hunt following church - I had to warn Josie not to pick them up on the way to communion! There was a one egg per child limit to to the hunt following the service which was a good thing or else my girls would have had far more than their share.







Doesn't Grandpa look snazzy? He cleans up well and I had to snap this picture before he even got in the door at Rob and Liz's because I knew he'd soon be in his more comfortable jersey!
We had Easter dinner in Seatoun and missed Rob and Liz, Alex, Hettie and Hugh who were at the farm but graciously let us eat in their home. Hugh, Margaret and Kate are staying there while in town so it seemed the easiest thing to do. Hamish and Delaney also met us there and it was great to see them and an added bonus since they've stayed with the children before when Rob and Liz travelled overseas so they knew where to find everything!!

The girls participating in yet another egg hunt - thank you Grandma and Auntie Kate!!




Meanwhile the adults enjoy a glass of champagne . . .

Look at the size of these eggs!! Kiwis do the whole Easter Egg hunt a bit differently than I'm used to - they hide chocolate eggs for one, which would never fly in Texas or Florida unless you want a hot goopy mess - and they also give each other these enormous chocolate eggs in a big box. We'll be eating chocolate until Christmas! I wanted to put some change in plastic eggs and hide them because when I was girl I always wanted to find the eggs with money, but I can't even find plastic eggs to buy here - I guess they are all too green!!
The weather was perfect for dining alfresco, so we did.
Then the girls played happily - not sure what they are doing here, but they were having fun. . .
The ladies did this. . .
And the guys did this. . .
Ok, that's not really fair, my sweet husband did help a lot with the clean up!! Love you honey!!


After everything was cleaned and sorted and we'd eaten our dessert we decided to walk down to the beach. The girls started out like this. . .
then they inched in a bit more. . .
Soon they were doing this. . .
Finally we just took their dresses off and they did this. . .
While we watched.
Ellie got out and built a castle.
Then they were all shivering with cold, so we ran back to the house and threw them in the spa to warm up - we're so grateful Rob and Liz keep it constantly heated!!



After a very full and wonderful day we drove back to Karori like this:



Happy Easter everyone!!!