The Art of Hospitality

Last night we had a lovely evening over at Rob and Liz's. Margaret and Hugh were in town for the night, having driven up to watch their grandsons (and our nephews) Hugh and Elliot playing in a rugby match. So, after having spent the entire day on a blustery, wet, cold field (which the Kiwis call a pitch if I remember correctly) watching Scots College (Hugh and Elliot's team) crush the competition, Rob and Liz invited everyone back to their place for dinner. We didn't watch the match -shame on us - due to the weather and various other commitments - but we did go over in the late afternoon and we stayed for dinner. Julie was there with her five - but she and the younger three had to leave almost as soon as we arrived so that Elliot could get to another sporting event. It was lovely to see them even if only for a few minutes.

As soon as we arrived Liz brought out an enormous trunk FULL of Groovy Girl dolls and accessories for the girls. They were enthralled, and sweet Hettie got down on the floor and played with them and basically looked after them so I could enjoy some adult conversation.

Lloyd and Julie's oldest two, having a car of their own, were able to stay and visit awhile longer. Here is a picture of Bella and Maddie with Margaret and Hugh (sorry Maddie that I caught you with your eyes closed).

Rob was the main chef for the evening and cooked up a lovely meal for all of us of lamb chops, sausages, green beans, some pastas and various salads. He and Liz manage to make feeding a crowd of 12 look effortless.

Meanwhile we all just kicked back and chatted . . .

Dinner was delicious and the company even better.

Hugh entertained us after our meal. . .

and Katie played a game of changing faces with Grandpa. Hand goes up over face, smile! Hand goes down over face, frown. Somehow this always entertains.

Anyway, reflecting on the night and the joy of being together with family I couldn't help but think of what a gift hospitality is to those who receive it. I looked it up in the dictionary and here is how Merriam-Webster's defines it:

1 a: given to generous and cordial reception of guests b: promising or suggesting generous and cordial welcome c: offering a pleasant or sustaining environment2: readily receptive : open

Rob and Liz blessed us last night with their generous hospitality. I only hope that when friends and family visit our home they feel as generously welcomed and received. Thanks for a lovely evening!!